A Man or a Mouse: From Tired to Terrifyingly Alive
- Dr Rui Graça
- Sep 15
- 4 min read
By MHI Editorial Team | Medical review: Dr Rui Graça, MD, Urologist & Founder | 15 September 2025
From Tired to Terrifyingly Alive
Mr X was 53, burned out, sexless, and sleepwalking through life. In just 12 weeks, he went from a domesticated housecat to rediscovering his inner lion. Here's how.
"I feel caged... like I'm watching my life happen to someone else"
Mr X was a financial consultant, former rugby man, father of two, and, by his own admission, now just a shadow of himself.
"Doc, I don’t know how it got this bad. I tick all the boxes. Job, family, gym. But I’ve got no fire left. I feel numb. No drive. No sex life. No spark. I look in the mirror and I don’t recognise the man staring back."
He looked down. His hands fidgeted.
"My wife says I’m not present anymore. She misses me… and I’m in the room."
Low testosterone isn’t just a hormone issue. It’s a vitality crisis. Over 30% of men over 45 show signs of low T: poor sleep, declining strength, anxiety, reduced libido, low motivation. Most never get diagnosed. The lion doesn’t stop hunting because he’s old. He only stops when his body forgets what it means to feel powerful.
The Unseen Battle
Dr Rui had seen this before.
A man who looked successful on the outside but felt quietly broken inside.
"When was the last time you felt proud of your body? Like you wanted to move it?"
"Years ago. I go through the motions. But no edge. No aggression. No clarity."
"Morning erections?"
"Gone. Like my twenties were someone else’s life."
Dr Rui ordered a full male hormone panel, inflammatory markers, metabolic health scores, and nutrient levels.
The lab slip was long. But the truth it revealed was longer overdue.
Why It’s Not Just About Testosterone - Low T affects mindset. Low motivation, indecision, anxiety. - SHBG often goes up with age, trapping free testosterone. - Cortisol can also compete - chronic stress chews through your fire. - Low-grade inflammation & insulin resistance quietly erode energy, muscle, and drive.
If your energy, hormones, or performance feel off, blind guessing won’t cut it.
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The Numbers Don’t Lie
Mr X’s labs showed:
Total Testosterone: 10.2 nmol/L (clinically ‘normal’, functionally suboptimal)
Free Testosterone: low
SHBG: 68 (high)
hsCRP: mildly elevated
HbA1c: 6.1% (insulin resistance)
Zinc & Magnesium: borderline low
Dr Rui didn’t flinch.
"You’ve got the metrics of a man living in survival mode. This isn’t ageing. It’s atrophy. And it’s reversible."
The plan:
Twice weekly (microdose) testosterone injections
Nutrient correction (zinc, magnesium, omega-3s)
MR-90 nutrition program (anti-inflammatory + metabolic reset)
Stress recalibration via walk-journaling and tech-free evenings
The Lion Diet Isn’t Keto. It’s Clarity. Testosterone drives far more than libido. It anchors identity, sharpens decisions, fuels challenge and courage. Studies show TRT improves metabolic function, mood, libido, insulin sensitivity, muscle mass and mental clarity in deficient men. But the real magic happens when the mind wakes up too.
The Real Battle Isn’t in the Blood
Week 5: Mr X texted Dr Rui.
“Feel a bit weird. Not bad, just… unfamiliar. Woke up wanting to have sex with my wife and lift weights. Haven’t felt that since 2010.”
Week 7: Libido surging. Energy stabilising. Belly shrinking.
Week 9: He broke down in session.
“I didn’t realise how far I’d drifted. I was alive - but I wasn’t living.”
Dr Rui adjusted his dose slightly, supported aromatisation with lifestyle (not meds) and kept steady.
The Return of the Lion
Week 12, Mr X strode in. Shirt fitted tighter. Posture upright. Eyes clear.
“My wife even cried a bit last week. She said, ‘I got you back.’
His results:
Free T: doubled
HbA1c: down to 5.5%
Waist: -6 cm
Libido: 9/10
Confidence: off the charts
He wasn’t chasing dopamine anymore. He earned it.
"I don’t need to be young again. I just need to feel alive."
The Real Moral of Mr X’s Story - You were never meant to live tame. - Testosterone isn’t about ego. It’s about essence. - There’s no pill for purpose. But hormones unlock the drive to find it.
What About You?
Is there a lion inside you that’s gone quiet?
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Disclaimer: This article is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Consult a licensed physician for personalised care. Clinical details are composite and privacy-protected. Story reviewed by Dr Rui Graça, MD.
References:
• European Journal of Endocrinology (2011). TRT effects on mood, libido, and insulin sensitivity.
• Clinical Endocrinology (2020). SHBG and bioavailable T in aging men.
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